Putting yourself first is important
This article includes links I have been paid to include, but all opinions are my own of how you need to look after yourself first.
Sometimes we spend so long looking out for other people that we forget ourselves. A phrase I love is that you can not pour from an empty cup. Putting yourself first is so important and one of the most important things you can do.
It is so true, though. If you wear yourself out looking after other people, you will soon be unable to look after yourself. So today, I am asking you to put yourself first.
Putting yourself first and looking good
Do you have a self-care routine? If not, it’s never too late to start. Start with simple beginner self-care tips to help shift your mindset. Before long, you won’t know why you didn’t do it sooner.
Do you wear make-up? I usually don’t, but I know when I do, I feel so much better about myself. It is something I should do more, and I believe you should too. Not as a chore, but as something to improve the way you see yourself.
Keeping your skin nice is always good, as you feel so much better with soft skin, especially your hands. I always prefer a good quality hand cream to make me feel good. This SEAMS couturiers hand cream is lovely and I would recommend it as a treat to yourself.
Another thing you can do to feel better about the way you look and love yourself is colouring or styling your hair. It is so easy to scrape up your hair in a ponytail or bun, but taking the time to do something different can improve your happiness and well-being that day.
Do you often buy gifts for others but not for yourself? Today, pop online and treat yourself to something. Maybe a new lipstick or some new earrings. They don’t need to be expensive, but a treat that is just for you. I love these good thoughts, good deeds, tops.
Keeping on top of your health
If you cut your leg, you would know about it, and if serious, seek medical help. This does not mean it is more important than other health issues.
Mental health is just as important. It is ok to be struggling and have depression. You can be helped, and these feelings will not last forever.
Do not forget to check for issues too; checking your breasts every month, at the same point of your menstrual cycle, is important. You could spot the early signs of breast cancer, and a few minutes once a month could save your life.
Don’t forget your intimate health, too. If you notice any changes down below, they need to be checked out too. It may be embarrassing having tests and smears, but it has to be better than becoming ill, doesn’t it? Putting yourself first and making time for these appointments is important. Many clinics are open for a variety of hours, so there is no excuse.
Putting yourself first every day
Every day, do one thing that is only for you and does not benefit anyone else in any way. It sounds selfish, but it isn’t and could make such a difference to your mindset. Even something simple like ordering your favourite Italian food online can make a big difference in your mood.
What can you do today to make sure you put yourself first and do at least one thing that is good for you, so that you are not pouring from an empty cup? Today I will be buying myself something nice, possibly a new Pandora charm.
I have also signed up with Coppafeel to get a monthly text reminding me to check my breasts. If you want to sign up to get the texts to then just visit their website to sign up and enter your details.
Have a relaxing home
If you can not relax at home, then there is no way you can be putting yourself first. Sitting and watching TV with clutter around you is depressing, and we don’t want that, do we? Buying plants for your home can make a difference to how you feel, or perhaps treat yourself to a bunch of flowers.
Having something from nature in your home will always lift your mood. Whether that be flowers, fish tanks, plants, or a conservatory that makes you feel like you are outside, it will make a big difference and is one simple way of putting yourself first.
You are amazing, remember that. Putting yourself first does not change that.
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